my opinion about LOVE

                                                                       LOVE

As you all are reading... many thoughts may come in  your mind... for those who have not  felt   love must be thinking... its another piece of  crap about  love,sentimental talks and waste of time and  contrary to that  those who have felt  love  may start  thinking about  their loved once , And then thinking what new I am going  to write in this note,  I would just say I also went through it and felt love too ,  And as we all for once asked from another what  is love... what is definition of love?  so here i am  want to share what i feel about love. What  actually  love is for me... may be i am wrong in it... but i am not proving myself right...it’s my view and your may differ from it...

                        I LOVE YOU.  Grammatically it’s a statement not a question...  a statement from a person to someone whom he loves, Still that person who said this statement needs and answer... why? Why we want that answer ? I don’t know... i never wanted that answer... i just loved someone. I let that person knew about that s... and  I did  not wanted that answer... i was not forced to love, it was my decision.  It was my feeling for that person so I just wanted to let her know that’s  it. I don’t care whether she replies to it in positive or negative  . But I would still love her. Because 

       " I can’t force anyone to love me... i loved someone that’s my choice  ... loving me back or not is their"

                           There are lots of theory   I would rather say lots of saying... because their is no specefic lab manual to do practical of love.  Some of those sayings are...love cant happen twice ,  We don’t fall in love   it just happens Is another. Some say love is life and some say love ruined their life. Depends upon ones experience.

                                                        " Love can’t happen twice”

        What actually love is...  from the basic it’s a feeling. It’s indeed... love is just another feeling like. Anger, Hate , Guilt , Sadness, Happiness. And if we can hate more than one thing... if we can be sad many times in our life...and we can be happy daily about something new ,  Why can’t we fall in love more than once?   If u can have one feeling more than once similarly we can feel love too , because its matter of  feeling ,Feeling by our heart , if we want to eat we will eat. so we can fall in love as many times as we want... its just our choice and we tend   blame upon that sacred word " love" that it cant happen twice. Believe me it can...

                               " Love happens automatically   . Manual working of it is called flirting"

                           We  as a human always have tendency to bend things and fact in our favor because we don’t want to be on the wrong side of the things. We always want to be on safer side... so we take shade under the sentence "" hey i did not fall in love intentionally ,it’s just happened " come on we all knew it that we are in love from the beginning... i personally feel.  That any love story has a kick start. a moment ,An incident  and we all knew when we felt that in  our life.. we don’t fall in love with every another  girl or boy.. its always someone special.  and if it has  to happen. Why it not happened with many other whom you  interacted before that special person in your  life... its just because  you  knew that she/he  is the one  you  were looking for . We start to behave animated in front of them.  Yes animated is the right word... we often behaved animated   in front of our loved  one  to make them realize that they are special for us? And more often than not they fell for this things that we make them realize that they are special in our life... so love just not happened on its own... we tried for it  and  we  fall in love  with our choice. 

                                             “FROM LIFE TO... BIGGEST MISTAKE OF LIFE ""

                          Another thing what I observed is, How things changes in a relation when it goes through a tough phase. When everything goes smooth we ignore any mistake of our loved one , because " making mistake is human nature" and "forgiveness is the best policy " what we believe in ,  and when things start to get worse its  like  " till when I should ignore  these  silly mistakes "  earlier big mistakes were easily forgiven and  silly ones are not tolerable now . Because we want to put blame on each other , Within moment our love become from the best thing ever happen to us to the worst mistake of our life .....  promise of   holding hands till last breath  is  forgotten... every   thing which we liked about other start to irritate us.  Why it’s like that , For once  we were not able to live without her and now we can’t live with them.. but why is that.. its just because... we start to ignore those sweet things which we used to do, everything our partner says seems wrong... because we see as a remark , earlier it was for our betterment and now it was like pointing out our mistakes.

                     "Love is not measured from how much you  loves other when all is well,  Its measured from how much you  can tolerate other when all is wrong”

                                                       “   MEANING OF LOVE ”    

                                      What actually love is ?   is it just being  together  even if  we are not comfortable  in each others presence? Is it still love when we  fight over small issue for many hours . Or  love is to see  our partner happy even if her happiness means  our sadness. For me  love is to see our loved one happy even if its without us. far from us. I would be happy to see my love happy  even if I have to  sacrifice my happiness for  that.   “ love is not in looking at each other for long time.. its  in looking together  in 1 direction.. and that direction should be always happiness of your partner. love can not be bound in time .. its timeless. Because when  we are in love  we forget count of time. every moment  feel like  we know each other from eternity ..   how to know when we are in love? . its actually when you can  see world  from her perspective..  when u know  what your partner  would react  for certain situation that’s the time when u can claim that  you know that  person inside out. And believe me when you  will know this.you are in love with that person..